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9/10/2014

Conflicts with other students

Hey, 

this theme really bothers me for many school years now, so it's definitely a theme you could refer about living on campus. 

We are over 320 students at EF New York right now and of course there will occur conflicts some times, especially because we're all from different countries with different cultures and behaviors.
Relating to that and to the fear of blaming yourself, you first of all search people, who are in the same situation and who actually might understand you, so you gonna form groups with other people of your country.

The people of your country are actually those, who might help you to settle in and feel comfortable on campus. They are the ones who beware you of getting homesick, because there actually a part of your home or home country. 
So worst thing to happen is, when those people knife you, when they let you feel redundant and show off that they wish nothing else than you beeing thousand miles away. 

Actually this might happen to a lot of you, so I'll give you some tips how to handle that.
1) Don't give a shit on someone's opinion about you, 'cause you're awesome! 
2) Don't involve other students, it's a thing to handle between you and your hater. 
3) If you feel like talking with the hater do it, otherwise let it.
4) If you have the feeling that the conflict might escalate in front of other students, try to get out of the situation without running away. 
5) Don't be the haters hater! That would be an awkward situation ending in a fight. 
6) Keep calm and talk to your besties at home! 

See u. 

P.S. I wish you Never get into a bitch fight like that. 
P.P.S. I might blunder into a bitch fight right now 😒

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